26 Nov 4 Bad Practices which must be avoided while drafting Biodata for Marriage
Normally while searching for marriage people do exaggerate the fact about the person or family or sometime they hide few facts, just to get the best match. They think that if they will tell all the fact then good matches will not consider their profile and they exaggerate the fact just again to get the better proposal. But the they never think about the side effects of these things. These are the very bad practices while creating the biodata for marriage we all should keep in our mind. If anybody wants to get a compatible match then each and every detail should be relevant or other person would have very different opinion about you and those things can impact your happy married life because other person will always feel cheated and would never able to survive longer. So, while creating any marriage profile we should avoid below bad practices,
Do not lie about your package, how much you earn?
So mainly people lie about their packages and if person is businessman then it is very easy to lie about that. For working people, they add all their variable and other benefit in their in-hand salary, for e.g. Few companies offer some holiday packages to their employees or some yearly vouchers (like Sodexo voucher) but that’s not the part of in hand salary but people add all benefits in their while mentioning on biodata whereas there should be clarity about hand salary and variables. For businessman person, they also mention total company turn over in their earnings, whereas they also should give proper clarity about profits.
Do not hide past medical history.
Medical history is also a very important part, which person should always mention in biodata in he or she had in past. Due to environment changes there are many lifestyle diseases which is hitting on younger age. But while making biodata for marriage people started hiding these things. Apart of lifestyle disease, some people hide chronic disease as well like cancer survivor. If your partner is ready to accept you after knowing all the facts then nothing like that. But we should not cheat anyone by hiding any medical history.
Do not hide about physical and mental challenges.
While making biodata for any of the family member, who is not physically and mentally fit, people sometimes avoid to mention about these challenges just to get proposal from normal profiles. Which I think everyone should avoid because if you will the get proposal from person then also that will not be materialized once other person will get to know about the reality and that will totally time waste rather than wasting the time people can try to search same kind of profile.
Do not hide last marriage or about child from first marriage.
This is also one of the major challenges, normally people try to hide about their last marriage. They usually do this because they want to get married with never married person second time and they know that never married people will avoid to get married with person who was married earlier. Even some people hide about the child from their first marriage, they also know that if he or she has child from the first marriage then another who is without any child, will again avoid to get married with that person.
Conclusion
So, these are the few major points which we all should avoid while creating any biodata for marriage because these are the issue which normally leads to divorce. We can also keep ourselves on the place of that person, if any person has not told you about some major fact and you get to know about that fact after marriage, Then How will you feel that time? Will you able to survive with that person rest of your life. Yes, sometimes we want to mention all the fact but don’t know how to write about those things? In that cases contact to any agency and take help from professionals. There are many agencies who are offering customized writing and designing biodata services.
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